My 4 year old daughter started school last week and there have been tears most mornings. My daughter’s teacher has told me we needed to do something about her “disruptive” behaviour. As we leave Lila forlornly in the classroom, screaming, it’s set me thinking about the whole “This is society, get used to it” thing.
I liked Fin Fahey’s Flickr picture because it sums up how I feel about the school: a gate sweetly inscribed “Girls & infants”, with graffiti and barbed wire all over it. The gate is padlocked and although it looks like this should be the entrance, it’s not at all clear how to navigate it.
It’s what business coach and facilitator Johnnie Moore refers to as the “come here now fuck off” approach. How many companies operate like this? Instead of making employees feel loved and cosy, they do just the opposite!
I’ve only browsed a few pages of the book but already I’m hooked. The basic underlying philosophy is that if you give children love and support and they will thrive; focus on results alone and you will alienate them.
I guess what Michael Parmly was pointing out is this: a little bit of love and freedom works wonders for all of us.